It doesn't seem possible that 4 years ago today, Kyle and I were married! I am so blessed to be married to such an amazing and Godly man. I thank the Lord for bringing Kyle into my life daily.
Recently, a friend asked me which year of our short marriage has been the best and which has been the toughest. The answer to both of those questions was this past year (our 3rd year) of marriage. It was the toughest because we were struggling with infertility, adjusting to a new life in Birmingham, and trying to begin ministry work for Kyle. However, it was one of our best years because our struggle with infertility lead us to beginning the adoption process, moving brought wonderful new people from our Sunday school community into our life, and brought wonderful pastors into Kyle's life to mentor and encourage him.
We had hoped that by our fourth year of marriage we would have a baby and Kyle would be ordained and working at a church. However, the Lord's plans are greater than ours, and He is continuing to work for our good but most importantly His glory. When we finally bring home our baby, the Lord will receive the praise for answering our prayers for a family. When Kyle finally gets a ministry position, we will praise the Lord for not allowing other jobs we thought looked perfect to work out.
This last year has been our best year of marriage because the Lord has been at work sanctifying us and teaching us to trust Him completely. Unfortunately, I think I still need some work in trusting Him, so I expect more sanctification during this next year! :)
Kyle - thanks for being my best friend and an amazing man of God. I would not change a thing about the last 4 years of marriage and pray that we have many more years ahead of us. I love you and am so thankful that I have you in my life!